But you can do it.
You deserve much better, I am telling you.
It's easy to brush things off, explain them away so it doesn't hurt so much...justify others' actions and words to make it easier for you to stay with them...
Reality is going to hurt
and I hope it hurts just enough that moving on seems the only intelligent option.
No one should stay in a relationship where they are not valued and appreciated.
You are a frisbee, not a boomerang.
Maybe even a glow-in-the-dark frisbee!
You got this :)